THOUGHT OF THE WEEK: "WHAT MAKES YOU A BAD GIRL?"

So this week's thought of the week is going to a little bit different. I have to admit that this post is actually based on the hit Oxygen series, The Bad Girls Club.

It's no secret that I'm a reality television junkie, and one of my guilty pleasures aside from reality tv is The Bad Girls Club, but season after season I get so tired of hearing the infamous words "You not a bad girl."

So I ask the question, what constitutes as being a bad girl? Better yet, I'll tell you what does not make you a bad girl.

Being a bully, ganging up on one person, 3 or 4 girls jumping one person, picking on another, because you think they are weaker than you. Needing a posse to always cosign for you. (Bad girls can stand on their own). Constantly yelling, talker louder than/ over everyone else around you, because your bark is louder than your bite. Being ignorant, petty and disrespectful to others.

Putting my two cents in, season after season the fights just get pettier and dumber than the last and I'm not denying that it's not great for tv, but I don't like it when a bunch of grown women victimize another and act as though they are back in high school.

These "bad girls" claim they come onto the show, because they need to work on themselves, so instead of fighting over whose real or whose fake, they should be trying to build each other up, empower each other and do something positive for a change.

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