So I'm sure that you've all heard the saying "you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your Prince Charming." Well accordingly there is a such thing as kissing a few frogs before finding your "Mr. Right," as opposed to your "Mr. Right Now." The seven types are; The man with potential, The man who's not looking for anything serious, The school girl crush, The thug you thought you could turn into a gentleman, The one with issues you can't fix, The charity case, and The one you think is the one.
The Man With Potential- Ladies, we have all been there, where we have met someone who possess some of the qualities in which we desire in a mate, but we're willing to look past certain things, because of the fact that there's potential there and we know that once he gets hisself together, he'll be the "the one" for us, right? Not at all the case!
Moral of the story: Never settle for less than you want/ deserve.
The Man Who's Not Looking For Anything Serious- That guy who we've hung out with not thinking that it would lead to anything until you realize that you and him actually share a lot of the same interests/ have a lot in common. Hanging out with him led to other things, which led to you developing feelings and wanting more with him. After all, you two have fun together, great conversations and you compliment each other, what's the worse that can happen right? Your bubble is burst when you finally work up the courage to tell him how you feel and he responds by informing you that he's not looking for a relationship. #Fail!
Moral of the story: Make sure the both of you are on the same page.
The School Girl Crush- We all have had that little crush on someone, you know that precious young love. Whether it was an innocent crush on a teacher, or a classmate who gave you butterflies anytime he passed you by or flashed that gorgeous smile your way.
Moral of the story: Puppy love is not real love!
The Thug You Thought You Could Turn Into A Gentleman- Just remember one thing, you cannot change anyone! The person has to be willing to change themselves, not for you, but for himself.
Moral of the story: Don't try to change anyone, who isn't willing to change for themselves.
The One With Issues You Can't Fix- We as women always want to help our men, especially when they are down and out. Letting them know that you are there for them no matter what, a "ride or die" for him. But, at the same time, there are some problems/ demons that he maybe dealing with that we just cannot fix. And that's okay, it's just something that he needs to deal with ASAP. If not, the situation can turn toxic very fast and that's not good.
Moral of the story: Run! As fast as you can, and do not look back.
The Charity Case- You know the guy that you feel sorry for, because he's either unemployed or underemployed. He's constantly complaining to you about his financial situation, meanwhile he sees that you feel bad for him and he is loving the fact that you are helping him out financially. Words of advice, just stop it right now ladies!
Moral of the story: it's okay if you want to help your man while he's down, but if a guy doesn't seem like he has any intention of helping himself, because he has you. You need to walk away because this dude is a scrub! Plain and simple. "A broke man will always take a loan, but will never pay you back."
The One You Think Is The One aka Mr. Right Now- I know I am not the only one who has ever thought someone I was with, was "the one" for me. Meanwhile, he was only the one at that particular time or Mr. Right now for that season. However, I am a firm believer that once you do indeed find/ meet the one, you will just know, because you won't have to second guess yourself. The minute you start second guessing, you already know he's just not the one for you.
Moral of the story: Patience is a virtue.
Overall, there is no such thing as a perfect man. And if that's what you are looking for, you will be waiting an eternity to find him. Once his good qualities outweighs the bad, and the good qualities in which he possesses are things you want your guy to possess, then you know you have a good guy by your side.
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